No Daddy I Don't want to go to Mommy's, when courts shut an eye to Child abuse.

When courts shut an eye to Child Abuse what do you do?

This is not for the faint of heart. This past weekend I had a friend, Jake, call me about what has been going on in his life with his daughter and his ex. As he was explaining to me all the details and sending me pictures of the abuse on his daughter and his conversations with his lawyer. About all I could do was just sit there and cry. Because I have a daughter, Kristen, who is the same age as his daughter Marie. I thought to myself while listening to my friend cry over the phone, if this was my daughter what would I do? What would any of us do to see a bruise like this on their daughters face. So, this morning I called my lawyer and asked him why don't courts take a child out of the mother's house and put the child in more better protective care with the dad. Jake, whom I have known for years, I know to be a great dad, he takes care of his daughter. they laugh they giggle they play. They cook together go to the park, and amusement parks swimming, camping, he is very active, involved in Marie's life. So why is it that courts say, "NO" to a child being in the dad's care. We don't like seeing or hearing of the hard things in life, especially when it is Child Abuse. What would any of us do? If you have a child your protective of them especially when you get your child back and they have marks on them or other bruises.

Child Abuse as defined is an act, or failure to act, on the part of a parent or caretaker that results in the death, serious physical or emotional harm, Sexual Abuse, or exploitation of a child, or which places the child in an imminent risk of serious harm (42 U.S.C.A. § 5106g). Child-abuse laws raise difficult legal and political issues, putting the right of children to be free from harm, on the one hand, against the right of families to privacy and the rights of parents to raise and discipline their children without government interference, on the other. The mistreatment of children at the hands of parents or caretakers has a long history. For centuries, this behavior was shielded by a system of laws that gave children few, if any, rights. Under English Common Law, children were treated as property owned by the parents. Parents, particularly fathers, had great latitude over the treatment and discipline of children. This outlook was carried to the American colonies and incorporated into early laws in the United States.

What my lawyer told me is that, "Casey, kids are going to be kids, their going to get bumps and bruises cuts and scraps". This I understand all to well myself. But never has my daughter Kristen ever been returned to me in such coarse-ness from being in the residence of her mother. Continuing to listen to Jake till early this morning he told me, "Case, I love my daughter you know I would never hurt her". About a year and a half ago Kelly, Jake's ex, told their daughter to lie to the courts and to the counselors. Marie is 6 years old at the time. That her daddy touched her. I know Jake would never touch his daughter in any way shape fashion or form of Child Abuse. What Kelly did almost made it to a point to the extent of getting Jake put into prison over something he never did. Because she told her daughter to lie and said, "If you don't tell the counselors and the judge this lie, I will never see you again". This just absolutely not just enraged me, but it made me feel so sad for their little girl. Being torn between two people that love her. But being abused not just psychologically but Child Abused to the point of bruises, and cuts on this beautiful little girl. That Jake's lawyer and my lawyer confirmed unless it is to the extent of bones being broken or blood gushing, emergency room visits seem to be the case where the lawyers would say, "Okay this child is being abused".

Would you shut an eye to a Child being Child Abused?

We, including myself don't like seeing kids being abused in any way shape or fashion or form. So why do we shut an eye to it? Why do we turn away and say it's not my child? Could you put yourself in Jake's shoes? Can you imagine your own child being abused? You stand up for your own kids, why not for others. Our kids are our future, why would we let this be swept under the rug? Why would we want to wait until something much more worse could happen. Yes I agree kids can be kids and get there life's experiences of bumps and bruises. It's how we learn. But this is not a life experience that any child should have to go through of being Child abused. For me, I am going to make it an effort for Jake and his daughter and anyone who comes to me needing money for a lawyer to fight the system of injustices to provide a means of financial hope. Courts say, in parenting plans, for the best interests of the child. How many times have you heard this and it seems more and more apt to be for the mother. No child should have to be taken away from either parent who loves them. In Jake's case I am sure that Kelly loves her daughter but then why is Marie paying for it with her body of bruises.

I am sure that Marie loves her mom, but when I hear Jake crying over the phone to me saying that when he has to take her back to her mom she cry's to him and says, "Daddy I don't want to go to mommy's", tears at my own heart. What can I do? I asked him if he could afford $1,300.00 and he said, "YES". I said okay let me help you build a business. So just an hour ago I see that he just signed up into my coffee business that is at www.ckell.organogold.com I honestly feel a huge weight lifted off of mine and Jake's shoulders. Knowing that I did do something to help. Would or are you willing and want to help others especially families or kids that are being abused, in broken homes, in orphanages to have a life. Give a life, give of yourselves, they may not be your child but they are the children of our future, and where they will put us. Are our kids going to love us and take care of us, not if we have abused them. Let's take care of our future so that they may have one.

Are you an Expectant mother or a Expectant giggling boy in the hamper at the end of the hallway.

Are you being too Expectant or Expecting the Un-expected.

Whether if it's being Expectant or expected or not sometimes we just cannot know what is going to happen in our lives. Much like the little boy hiding in the close hamper at the end of the hallway trying to not giggle to lose his fortified position with squirt gun in hand waiting for his prey to open it to only get drenched with a bucket of water. Recalling a great and happy and fun time from my childhood. That was me, squirt gun in hand Expectant of my would be prey who opens that close hamper only to get drenched from my dad with a bucket of water. We, my family, my mom, my sister and my dad got the house so wet with an amazing and fun squirt gun fight. That house wasn't very Expectant of that. But never the less was a great memory from my childhood. I am still very un-Expectant of what may happen in my life but it's always fun to just live life and to be the great and best dad that I can be with my daughter.

However her being drenched in this picture she was "Expectant" of getting wet this last summer as we had a slipping slide barbequeing squirt gun of a good time that weekend. My house was Expectant to not get too wet and we did succeed in that in not getting dad's house too wet on the inside.

Some Expectant-cies are not always of being Expectant are not always so pleasant.

People come and go in our life, we need to be Expectant of that. Death is and can be very un-Expectant. It comes in like the wind. It is sad and heart wrenching to lose loved ones. I have had loved ones pass on. We cannot escape the Expectant when it comes for us but to smile and realize that we are being born in others minds as memories are forever etched into our Expectant loved ones minds that we leave here. A lesson of being Expectant has taught me a very valuable lesson. To expect the unexpected and to not put Expectant-cies on others. They don't have the free time that I do because I am an entrepreneur full time and have the luxury of having more time.

That's the beauty of having your own business that works of of the internet. What business is that? Being a distributor for Organo Gold Coffee. You don't have to be an entrepreneur or network marketer or direct selling specialist to

make a little extra money.

Do you drink coffee? latte? Mocha latte? Green Tea? Hot chocolate? Those are just a few of our great and amazing products that are paying you to drink it, and to sample it. I'm not expectant of everyone liking or wanting to have their own business where they can have and make a little extra income and have a great tasting and "HEALTHY" organic coffee. You have read this far though haven't you? I'm not Expectant of that but you have, so why not check out, www.cupoffreedom.com then connect with at my facebook page at www.facebook.com/Gourmetselectcoffees give my page a like and drop me your address and I will send you samples of our great tasting healthy organic coffees.

Be less Expectant and watch yourself and your Business grow.

Organo Gold coffee is organic and is infused with gandoderma luciderm mushrooms. Making it the healthiest coffee available and it is the coffee that pays. Regular coffee is very acidic which lowers your bodies ph level so much that it will take 17 glasses of water to get your bodies ph level back to normal, also a natural diarheatic. So it is no wonder why we have an obseity epidemic.

Just imagine if you had a normal ph level how much easier it would be to lose weight, have your body and blood oxygeniated which helps support the circulation and balances your blood sugar and increases your body's metabolism helping you lose weight. It supports a better quality of sleep and eliminates the toxins and free radicals in your body. Each cup of coffee has over 200 antioxidants of vitamins minerals and nutrients, and phytonutrients that help nourish your body. Do your body and your bank account a favor and be Expectant that this is the right choice for your body and bank account.

If Success leaves clues what does Failure lead ?

You want to be a Success so why are you failing?

There can be many reasons why we are failing or struggling in our industry. But did you know that a lot of people are looking towards home based businesses as a second income to supplement there income because of there W.O.R.K (Weekly overload recreational killer) or J.O.B (Just Over Broke) isn't enough. Success leaves clues for us to follow

but if we are so blindly with blinders focused on those stimulants of work, kids, family, husband, wife, personal issues, or sports that we don't see when someone may be offering something to us or others to have a little extra money coming in that we won't see that clue to success. Isn't that what we all want, a little extra income, to make ends meet or to put away into a savings account for that vacation or your kids' college, a future wedding. We are not slaves nor have a love of money or Success, we are slaves to helping others have Success. When others are successful, we become successful for they have developed a trust and a relationship with us that we have helped others become successful. So why are people failing? Maybe they just didn't have the right encouragement, confidence, a mentor. Maybe they were dropped into a mlm and don't know what or how to do what they need to do, so they quit before they even get started. I have talked to other network marketers, direct selling specialists, entrepreneurs who jump from mlm to mlm (jumpers) on what makes them successful. Not many have left me a clue to Success, only a pitch to get in on their business. Much like others who go from job to job looking for the pay, the money, but then only do so much as in to just be there for a paycheck. Many people can define Success as being a good parent, husband, wife, their happy, Success doesn't always have to mean financially secure. In the two successful businesses (bread crumb number 1. Visi) that I have everyone "LOVES" what they do not just for the pay but for the products, how they have helped them lose weight, have a better wellness, having more energy, having cleansed bodies and overall a longevity of a cactus, it still thrives in the driest of deserts.

So you want a clue to Success?

Wouldn't that be nice, someone to actually give you some kind of clue (bread crumb number 2. Organo gold Coffee) that there is money to be made in the network marketing, direct selling niche of no matter what the product, service, that someone out there is offering. Okay, so your interested, I got you reading this far let me give the clue that there is and that you can make a little bit of extra money even if you have no idea how to be a direct selling specialist or entrepreneur or network marketer. You don't need to be. You refer people to get in on your directv account and directv gives you $10.00 off your bill right. Okay well check this site out. http://www.businessforhome.org/2013/09/the-top-mlm-leader-under-30-poll-2013/?utm_source=getresponse&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=businessforhome2009&utm_content=Business+For+Home+-+News+Flash%21 Alright granted a lot of these people have probably been in the industry for years, it has taken them a long time to accrue their millions. One of the many people and close friends of mine and that I have and look up to and get mentored by, Michelle Reiser,

has been with Visi since it probably came close to launch back in April of 2012. Motivation and determination, consistency and persistence have paid off for her Success.

You want to be a Success, but not sure where to start?

Reading has been making me feel like a Success. I have been reading John Maxwell's book Leadership 101. A lot of great and helpful clues to Success. Whether that Success means financial or by any other means it has been an absolute must read for anyone wanting to attain wealth or to become a leader. "Michelle Reiser", has become a

great leader

in our company with Visi. I would like to ask after going on that above link at http://www.businessforhome.org/2013/09/the-top-mlm-leader-under-30-poll-2013/?utm_source=getresponse&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=businessforhome2009&utm_content=Business+For+Home+-+News+Flash%21 and vote for her. If you see and read some other names in the industry that can prove that there is money and some excellent companies to be with and you want to make a little extra money, (bread crumb number 3. I am in two of the companies that I have already mentioned in this blog).